Marco
3 weeks ago
you'll see your aunt and uncle and they're not getting younger. the wedding is the excuse. the actual point is the table you sit at on saturday night.
Convince me
It's a flight. I barely know her now. We were close as kids.
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Marco
3 weeks ago
you'll see your aunt and uncle and they're not getting younger. the wedding is the excuse. the actual point is the table you sit at on saturday night.
Sharp beats loud. Make it useful.
Someone
3 weeks ago
i skipped my cousin's wedding 4 years ago. never got the chance to see her in that kind of mood again. wasn't a huge regret, but it's a quiet one. for what that's worth.
Kate
3 weeks ago
go for two days. fly in saturday, fly out sunday. you don't have to do the whole weekend. the cost of going is way smaller than your brain is making it.
Someone
3 weeks ago
honest answer, if you'd rather not go, don't go. send a generous gift, send a nice note, and skip the guilt. weddings have enough people who don't want to be there.